Sunday, October 29, 2023

A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying

"…Have you thought about what a good death would be for you? I want to be at home. I want to have my immediate family come and go as they want, and I want a living funeral. I don't want people to say, "This is my favorite memory of her," when I'm gone. Come when I'm dying, and let's talk about those memories together. There have been times when patients have shared with me that they just don't think anyone cares about them. Then I'll go to their funeral and listen to the most beautiful eulogies..."

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/10/22/magazine/hadley-vlahos-interview.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare
A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying

Sunday, October 1, 2023

Forget About Living to 100. Let’s Live Healthier Instead.

I'm 66. I reject this "estimate":

"…we do not rigorously measure and report health span as we do life expectancy.  Best estimates indicate that the average American can expect to celebrate only a single birthday in good health after the traditional retirement age of 65…"


https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/28/opinion/aging-public-health-healthspan.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare
Forget About Living to 100. Let's Live Healthier Instead.